Self Help Guide

20 Questions: Finding my best self, part 2

Self Help Guide: 20 Questions to Finding Your Best Self

Sometimes its hard to put your finger on why you’re not feeling 100%. I get it. I’m normally girl glass-half-full; but, we all have our moments. And that is 100% normal.

Is where this wonderful self help questionnaire comes in thanks to Ell Duclos and her original post!

So, welcome to part 2 of “50 Questions: Finding my best self“. We are covering 20 more self help questions that hopefully will point you into the right direction.

Disclaimer: I want to stress that I am not a psychiatrist, psychologist or any other medical -ist. You may want to consult a licensed professional if you truly feel deeply unhappy, unmotivated, depressed and the like.

Self Help Guide, Part 2

Today, it’s less about how I answer these questions and more about how they make YOU feel.

That is to say, I don’t want to influence your answers – it’s not about me.

  1. How can I add to my happiness?
  2. Am I doing all that I can to reach my goals?
  3. Are there areas of my life can I improve in?
  4. What are 5 things I love about myself?
  5. Are these 3 negative mindsets I need to let go of?
  6. What will I accomplish next year?
  7. How can I improve my daily routines?
  8. What is one piece of advice Iโ€™d give my future self?
  9. How can I love myself more daily?
  10. What can I do to practice more self care throughout the week?
  11. Can I name 5 things that make me smile?
  12. What steps can I take to be the most confident version of myself?
  13. How can I show others more love and compassion each day?
  14. Who makes me the happiest?
  15. What is my number one goal for next year?
  16. If I could relive one moment what would it be?
  17. If I could time travel where would I go?
  18. How would I describe a perfect day?
  19. If I could be anything in the world, what would I be?
  20. If I could travel anywhere in the world, where would I go?

I feel as though, these thought-provoking questions are designed to help you think about all the wonderful things in your life. Get you focused on the positive side of things.

Do you have a favorite question thus far? Is there one in particular too difficult to answer? I really do hope that they inspire you to feel some genuine self love about your life.

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  1. I love this guide – it makes you think about what you really want out of yourself. I definitely want to take some of these questions into my own life and see where I can go with these. Thanks for sharing โ™ฅ.

    Nancy โ™ฅ

    1. You’re so welcome Nancy! It’s not an easy task – but, 100% satisfying as you hone into understanding those deeper layers about oneself.

    1. Aww thanks Kristina!! It’s easier said than done – but, an important step. Writing stuff down really gets one committed to getting the process rolling ๐Ÿ™‚

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